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Column 463

Advice

Intro by Ted Kooser
02.02.2014

This touch­ing poem by Dan Ger­ber, who lives in Cal­i­for­nia, cap­tures the mem­o­ry of a father’s advice, but beneath the prac­ti­cal sur­face of that advice we can sense a great deal of emo­tion, which shows through a lit­tle crack at the moment the father clears his voice before continuing.

Advice

You know how, after it rains,
my father told me one August afternoon
when I struggled with something
hurtful my best friend had said,
how worms come out and
crawl all over the sidewalk
and it stays a big mess
a long time after it’s over
if you step on them?

Leave them alone,
he went on to say,
after clearing his throat,
and when the rain stops,
they crawl back into the ground.

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2012 by Dan Gerber, from his most recent book of poems, Sailing through Cassiopeia, Copper Canyon Press, 2012. Poem reprinted by permission of Copper Canyon Press. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.