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Column 240

The Paleontologist’s Blind Date

Intro by Ted Kooser
10.25.2009

We haven’t shown you many poems in which the poet enters anoth­er per­son and speaks through him or her, but it is, of course, an effec­tive and respect­ed way of writ­ing. Here Philip Mem­mer of Deans­boro, N.Y., enters the per­sona of a young woman hav­ing an unpleas­ant expe­ri­ence with a blind date.

The Paleontologist’s Blind Date

You have such lovely bones, he says,
holding my face in his hands,
 
and although I can almost feel
the stone and the sand
 
sifting away, his fingers
like the softest of brushes,
 
I realize after this touch
he would know me
 
years from now, even
in the dark, even
 
without my skin.
Thank you, I smile—
 
then I close the door
and never call him again.

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2008 by Philip Memmer, whose most recent book of poetry is Lucifer: A Hagiography, Lost Horse Press, 2009. “The Paleontologist’s Blind Date,” from Threat of Pleasure by Phil Memmer, ©2008 Word Press, Cincinnati, Ohio. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.