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Column 208

Long Marriage

Intro by Ted Kooser
03.25.2009

To have a help­ful com­pan­ion as you trav­el through life is a mar­velous gift. This poem by Ger­ald Flem­ing, a long-time teacher in the San Fran­cis­co pub­lic schools, cel­e­brates just such a relationship. 

Long Marriage

You’re worried, so you wake her
& you talk into the dark:
Do you think I have cancer, you
say, or Were there worms
in that meat
, or Do you think
our son is OK
, and it’s
wonderful, really—almost
ceremonial as you feel
the vessel of your worry pass
miraculously from you to her—
Gee, the rain sounds so beautiful,
you say—I’m going back to sleep.

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2005 by Gerald Fleming. Reprinted from “Swimmer Climbing onto Shore,” by Gerald Fleming, Sixteen Rivers Press, San Francisco, 2005, by permission of the author. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.